first, i'm sorry you're here...if you were to read my first posting several months ago, you would think you wrote it....my H said the EXACT same things....and yep...he looked so sure and absolute...they have to, it justifies what they are doing...my H moved out 3 months ago and we have not ML since last June...we used to ML 3x a week, then boom, the bomb....and the bombs continued...all the way through to today....found out last month that H has an 8 yr old son from an affair he had 8 years ago...i had NO idea....nothing was different....and he kept it a secret for 8 years......talk about your life being turned upside down..I still feel I'm living a nightmare and I want to wake up...
I still cry everyday...it is hard....I can't lie...and yes I still love my H, I dont' know why...maybe it's the 30 years we've spent together....
Yes, he has another OW...not the same one....it's his "soulmate"..and he's "in love"....remember those words....ILYBINILWY.......whatever....again,....more justisification for what HE'S done....my children are devastated...they now have a half brother, who is 8....and their father has a girlfriend...even told my D15 he did...told her we were only married on paper....he hasn't been in love with me for 15 years....the years change daily....anyway...if you want to read my story you are so welcome to....
"how do they look themselves in the mirror?" "how do they walk away"
Keep coming here, vent, scream, cry.....we are all here for you...You'll get some great advice for the pros....and you're right....it all happens for reason and in God's time..
Take Care
Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
