ROP - my wife is starting to detach from OM as well. OM is in counseling with his W - and my W said the exact same thing! There is still now us! Argghhhh. I do see this as a positive in a bizarre way...
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09