(((((((hugs))))))))

I know how you feel.

I love my house but I know I cannot go on living this way where he has control.

I mean he has been late paying bills and I don't feel secure enough that things will not be turned off. My cable already did once.

This is not healthy for us.

We need to go on with our life as they are not coming back.

Heck, I don't even think I want JA back anymore.

If he does not want to be married to you he needs to set you free.

You are living in a prison basically.

I think you did the right thing by filing contempt of court.

Who cares if he gets mad?

You are not doing it to get a reaction out of him, you are doing it for yourself.

And he did this to himself.

You do what you have to do.

You must think of yourself right now and what's best for Jeanette.

Sitting around putting up with his promises is getting you no where. Being proactive will.

I wish you all the best.

Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009