Thank you SG and Kat!!! SG I sent the email to my H with the changes you suggested and it worked. He said he doesn't want the kids to see her but will talk to her first before making a decision. I think he is pretty confident he will just talk to her and then tell me to find another therapist for the kids, but I think it will be tougher than he thinks to reject the C b/c she is sweet, friendly, and smart. \:\) And even if he is still able to reject her and tell me to get another therapist I will feel better that he at least talked to her and (hopefully) gave her a chance or consideration first. So I think it is a win/win! \:\)

Then just as soon as we worked out the therapist problem, my H emails me a new argument 2 seconds later! It really seems like H wants to keep up constant argument between us. Maybe it makes it easier for him to divorce me or something like that? I'm going to see the therapist tomorrow and see if she has any ideas for what I can do b/c I HATE the constant arguing he starts.


Maybe I'll have to keep trying to avoid him a lot like I did Sunday and his emails and everything if they're not related to the kids just not respond to them and ignore them?


I wish my H would switch to a different therapist b/c the one he's seeing for his anger issues the last couple months doesn't seem to help--he is just as angry most of the time as he was last year! I don't think I am a witch like he acts almost the opposite really--I still cook him dinner when he comes over and stuff like that and you know I always try to act friendly with H even when he is angry or distant (although I don't succeed all the time)! \:\)

If it's MLC I hope he will get through it soon!!! Karen

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