Separated living in the same house..huh?

[Doingmypart]

Thanks for the perspective. I did not see her as a WAW either. So I had not really read much of the posts there. I will check it out. Uphill battle, is an understatment. Strangely, I do have my head in a good place. This has not "destroyed me" like I thought it would have. I am more focused than ever to work on me. I do get caught up in where she is with all of this and that tends to discourage me. I plan to stand firm in regard to me staying in the house with the kids as much as I can. I am willing to alternate who stays where, but I won't up & leave. I really liked what you said at the end of your post too, that is what I want to do is just move forward & not look back so much.