CBK, hang on. I think the roller coaster is going to subdue when we are going to be happy or sad independently by the fact that our W is nice or not with us. For me is impossible right now, but that is my target. This is the kind of detachment I need.
Anyway I think is good to reinforce the good behavior, so if she is nice with you I think is good to show you are appreciating that... right now I am not even able to do that, but I think, from your posts, that you have the stamina to keep cool.
BTW, I am still up for a beer.