oops, forgot to post on new thread, here it is....

B, I think you should still reconsider your decision on H being your support for labor. IMHO, I think you should not call or txt or bring it up. If HE brings it up, and says he wants to come, then wonderful. But I wouldn't even ask him. I know you don't want to let go of him, but you have to.

also, I'm glad to hear that you are keeping yourself busy. But with your comment to forest, (I think that was who) about your GALing activities, you've never written about that stuff before hardly.

I think it's really important for you to start sharing with us what your doing outside of H. I know this is a place to let all your anger and emotions out about our S, but in order to get past everything, we need to be focused on life outside of our S. You really haven't done that. Maybe instead of trying to stop thinking about H, try to talk MORE about what else your doing.

k?

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."