God believes I'm worth it...

[cat03]

It is not in the SA about him using the house to see the kids.

OK folks, just talked to the loan lady...

She can offer me a loan with the same house rate i got of 5.87 (unless I buy a point which would lower my rate to 5.5 adding 2k to my closing costs, but in the long run I earn 14k.

My mortgage payment would go from 1,230 to 1,300 per month, if I borrow 23k (only giving stbx 17k) I will be able to pay off my car. I also wouldn't have to pay him the 230 monthly and he'd have to pay me full child support, which, unless I suck at math (and I do) means I'd have a surplus?!

Meaning, I'd rid off him, he wouldnt' have to come to my house 'cause he have enough to pay off his debt and get his own place and I would have gotten his name off the title. Lord, sounds too good to be true, I really need to think this before I offer stbx 17k. Assuming he'll take it and he meant what he said the other day, that debt ridden as he is he rather take 10k now if we sell the house than wait 5yrs for the 23k.