i broke every dbing rule and guideline. i was so anger for h contacting me after such a long time. he started off with he wants to be a father, is going to be a father to our d and things like that. it really upset me, NOW he wants to after months of not being there for her, no support nothing and now. he said he wanted to start there, i kept telling him, my d does not go anywhere without me, i rarely get to work out for an hour at the gym since she suffers such sep anxiety from me. like i would let him take her him being a stranger. after a while talking it comes to, he wants to have another baby, wants his family, misses us arguing, i don't know i may just be looking at all the positive stuff. i left the convo last night with just leave us alone we were doing well without him and i don't want nor need anything from him and then i texted him today. i felt bad, i feel like im punishing him for what he has done over the past months. i texted him that he must have been asking for outside help from a higher power since this saturday would have been an anniversary for us and i'm going to the very place we met to get out when my daughter goes to bed for the night, he texted me back with do want to meet at our restaurant, i asked if he was talking to me, and he called me back to say he couldn't text at the moment that he would call me after he got done with work. so that is where we are at.


Me 40 H 30
D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months
H walked out nov 1, 2009
Seperated ever since
filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10