I'm so, so sorry. I know what this feels like and it sucks. Smooch.
The children will look beautiful and behave beautifully and people will know who to thank for it, and it won't be J and the W. Nope, it won't, I guarantee it.
I won't live long enough to have the courage to disagree with AmyC, but I will say it takes two to tango. Always. It wasn't just her, and it wasn't just him. Neither of them are moral in regards to the kids, IMO.
You sound better already, especially the part about the felon shoe & bag guy. That was a first for me, trust you to be the one to have such a "provider."
