Thanks for posting farmtown! What you said makes complete sense as well. I know even when I was a nanny, the kids were MUCH better for me than they were their parents. They don't know what they can get away with with others, but know what they can with us. I'll definately have to start putting my foot down. I eased up on that because I know she was hurting too, but now it's time to remind her I'm here, love her and will always be here but don't not accept this type of behavior.
