you are not your daughter's best friend nor should you ever be you are her parent
not saying you are doing this just saying our job as a parent is much different than the job of a friend. I see a lot of parents worried that their kids won't like them who cares you are their parent your job i sto teach them how to be a good grown up...it's nicer if they like us but not necessary
and the killing herself is a cry for help and not a school counselor Dar a therapist perferably one specializing in children
in MN there is the Alexander Center... look into what place that is where you are
if you called and told them that they would get you an appointment asap