That's very true, Neecy. Heck, many wayward spouses have to CHANGE JOBS in order to minimize the chance of contact (my wife did), and some have been known to even move to another town, if necessary (something that Harley recommends). The whole "I have to work with her/her" is a smokescreen.
Or is it a red herring? Or a straw man? I always get those confused . . .
