I've been given at least a 2 year reprieve from having to face what your going through now. My impression and thoughts towards the OM around my S8 went a little deeper, darker, and more aggressive in nature than yours, but that was only because I knew his past history. You are treading into unknown territory here, how much do you really know about this OW? I can understand and empathize with your situation. Don't hesitate to look for the support you need from those of us who understand.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
