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It's one of two things. Either his mood is related to his enthusiasm with you, or his mood with you is leading to general enthusiasm. In either case, run with it. \:\)


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I am hoping his mood with me is leading to enthusiasm

He sent me several text messages earlier. He asked me to come meet him on his break tonight and have dinner but I didn't have time. Then he asked if he could come by and see me after work\:\) Now I am waiting on him to get here. He has made an effort to at least talk to me pretty much every day since our talk.


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Yay!

Have fun


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Hey, Kris! C'mon, no holding out! ;\)

Hope you had a great night! \:\)


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
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Sorry, not holding out. We had to do inventory this morning and I am beat! I bet I have walked five miles today already today.

H came over right after work last night. We watched some tv, talked,...and umm...seems those levitating shirts work better when you don't have a bra on.

We started talking about what we were going to cook tonight and H asked if I would have to go to the grocery store. I told him yes and he said "Want me to come with you? You can just give me a call after work and we can go together."\:\)

H gave me lots of WOA last night...good for the PMA. He hasn't really done that in a while and it was something he ALWAYS used to do. I gave him WOA too, and it seemed he thought I was sincere.

All in all a good night and an unexpected visit!


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Whoa there, missy! TMI!

Glad to hear you had a wonderful evening! And all the baby steps keep on coming!

Everything sounds really hopeful. \:\)


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Quote:
Whoa there, missy! TMI!

lol, sorry.


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Lol awesome.

You're getting an army's worth of baby steps out of your H lately!


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I am still very cautious though...I can't help waiting for the other shoe to drop. His actions do seem sincere though.


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I think that's just natural, and also a little good. I think it keeps you from taking him for granted, although I think you need to be a bit more relaxed so you're not creating issues either - but I think that will come with time.

Does your book address that?


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