YOU? What do you think? Does any of this make sense?
GL, I did not answer this question earlier. To be honest none of this has made sense to me. I'm talking about my whole sitch. I have looked at it logically and w/common sense and there is no logic. I stopped trying to figure out what the(her) problem was and have tried to change for the better. I have stopped persuing and pushing her. I don't argue with her. I am acting 'as if" I will be alright. She has maintained that she fell out of love with me, does not know if she can get those feelings back. Is afraid that if she stays in the M that down the road she will regret it, if she gets out then down the road she will regret it. Says I'm not a family man that I am a bachelor at heart. Says I don't put her first. Says she sees me trying to make changes, then has told me I have not changed at all.
Truly, I don't think she is having an A. Until I can get hard evidence then I think that way. I may never get hard evidence.
An A for me would be a dealbreaker, we would be done. If there is an A then I want to know. I can handle knowing and it will help me to move in the proper direction.
There are no tell tale signs that I see physically. The trip to Nashville makes sense to me. It is not out of character for that to happen. If she started staying overnight again, then that would be out of character for her. I heard her boss in the car in the background.
I know what you are saying, I am watching. I value your objective opinion. Never ever think that you are offending me. If there is something else I need to watch for or do please feel free to post and let me know. I really appreciate the feedback you give me.
You have never made me angry or offended me. Personnally I think you are a god-send. You came out of nowhere and helped Ping turn his sitch around. I know Ping is grateful, I can see it in his posts.
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 04/30/0806:24 PM.
