Thanks, Jeff. I am so glad that I found this forum. I really was close to making a bad decision. I needed people to talk me in the right direction. I wish I had found it earlier. Have any of you thought of giving the DB book to your spouses? I'm not sure I woudl have read it at that time....but I may have....I don't know.
I am giving my H time. I do understand his anger. We are really doing good lately. I just keep with my hope that the feelings will be stronger and stronger with H. I am trusting what the books say and hoping they are right. I know what I want now, I just need to keep on putting forth the effort to get it.
