We are getting along well. Although, we had a Major Discussion RE~ his MOM the OW and his Sister. It was like "word vomit" spewing from me. Just facts not trying to hurt him and I did not verbally abuse him either.After years of just staying quiet and not saying a thing. ~Amazingly he listened. He did not talk to me too much for a day and a half, ..... but he did not stop me and he did not defend..... he heard me. Finally heard ~ME! So I feel like I have made real progress, I feel safe to speak my mind , I feel loved and most of all I now feel respected.
He has done things with me and the kids that he has never even done before. And it is from the heart and they include him and have nothing to do with money. He took the kids to the library, his idea not mine. He smiles at them more. And today he offered to walk them to school..... To me these things and more that he is doing now are PRICELESS. And what I had always wanted for him to do!~ He is becoming the Father I always knew he could be and the Husband I used to only dream of.... I am blessed and I am going to continue to thank God for this blessing and keep working.... keep this Miracle alive. I am almost to the 2 year ago mark when everything hit the fan and now I have this amazing Gift. He is different and he is present and the kids are Happy. Again all I can say is a ~WOW~ A REAL Miracle. I am so proud of him growing like this. Will post more soon. THank you to everyone for your support. Love and God bless, Ali
