((( Lissie ))) When I read your posts, my heart hurts, and my eyes tear up. I just feel it, well I felt it, it dosnt hurt anymore, for me but yes for our babies it will always have some effect, how can it not??
I know you know like my friends tell me, that my S is lucky enough to have my family and their support, like your babies have you and your wonderful family, thats gonna get them thru a lot of this icky stuff.
It was rather funny, last night I was at dinner w/ 2 girlfriends, I was telling them about me meeting B's future SIL family , there is a few D and remarriages and half siblings in their family as there is in B's. I said how it was different and new for me as its not common in my family at all, They said in a joking way, oh you are so naive, welcome to the REAL world. I laughed but thought, why is that the real world? yea I guess it is these days, but why?? dunno.
Ok just ramblin.
You are such a classy mom/woman Lissie I admire you.
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life