Well, it has been stated that it takes well over a year to get over the other person.
Yes that is true, but you are missing the most important part...
HE NEEDS TO BY TRYING and he isn't.
Getting over the other person takes a huge amount of effort on the part of the offender, and this means stopping all contact NOW and forever.
Yes, he came home BFD!
WOOPEEE!!!!
And now what?
He lies, he manipulates and strings her along, she should have bought a puppy at least the dog would show his appreciation and love.
I do understand that Patty needs to be patient, but as he is not doing anything to make her life easier, then the whole nonsense of the one year doesn't count, does it.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
