OHHH this is good conversation.

Thanks for coming by ..I wish H and i could communicate.
I have been very kind..even to this day I still am polite. I say thank you and hello. But he has not even responded for the past few months. Not since i wouldnt agree with him

He ignores my texts. i smile he doesn't. He stays far away from me. It doesn't work.
For some reason he only states we can't until we are divorced.

How do you make someone feel safe when they are sooo scared to show you any kind emotion.

They only way e would be happy if I settled..why??

He wont communicate with me now. He said that we are on different terms now. And Honestly how after the divorce am I suppose dto be friendly? Miracuoulsly he will be kind and care???

I feel the same way as both of you. i do not like who he is. I have tried .

How on earth can I make him feel safe if he has a brick wall up???

Last edited by kikifree; 04/30/08 05:11 PM.