In the past D has told me "if Daddy can say this then so can I". So I'm SURE it has partly to do with how they see us being treated. However, there's a difference to me in putting up with it from H and from D. D doesn't know half of what H has said and why I'm doing what I'm doing. She only sees the actions he used to take towards me. Thank goodness H has calmed down now....but unfortunately D is just getting worse. This is one of the reasons doing this alone sucks!
