God believes I'm worth it...

[Committed2Him]

OT may sound like he is taking a hard line but it is very solid advice. I use to have access to my X's house, NEVER did anything in appropriate but it just caused friction. I pay her on time do everything I should but sill it became a problem. (now I drop them off and leave)

Trying to be "reasonable" with an unreasonable person (unreasonable starts with chucking a marriage for an OW) NEVER works.

Remember, we are pulling for you, your health, your long term best interest.

Praying harder and harder for wisdom and God to do a work here.