Maybe he has sex with OW as the excitement of that counter acts the erectile disfunction and he is frightened if he goes back to being faithful to his W the problem will re-occur.

That would be my best guess - that and he has proven himself dishonest more than honest so far. I have seen no effort by him to try and show Patti in any meaningful way that he is being above board; all he does is get defensive- that just stinks to me.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength