She's never heard anyone say anything about killing themselves..unless she heard it at school. I think she said it in aggrevation for having to do homework so quickly before bedtime.
I don't want her f'd up like I am though. Not at all. My dad was VERY abusive and that's why I don't believe in spanking. I don't want her to have issues all because me and H are seperated though. If a divorce would help D get closure, then I'd have to consider that for sure since it would help D. But I think it's aggrevation on her part. I just wish she'd show it to H so he can see first hand how she's affected.