Oh my Sara..these are the same exact thoughts I have!! The OW told me that when H ended it again the last time and told her to stop calling that he said " I can't be with you right now, perhaps in the future my marriage will fall apart but if it does it can't be because of a third party, so no more calls and maybe in the future we'll be together but for now live your life and don't wait for me"..This made me feel great, just great. So when he does hug me I kind of wonder if he's doing it just to make me feel we have a chance..who knows..but after her last stunt and what she attempted to do to my kids if he took her back than he does not deserve to have children.
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace
