Oh, one other thing I learned is that ML with your H forgives adultry in the courts eyes (in my state).
The L I spoke to told me that some spouses will ML with their W or H, and then either refrain from being with the OP, or just be very very careful not to get caught so that they do not have to face adultry grounds in a D.
Nature Girl M 40 H 40 M 15, T 19 D11 S9 bomb 3/07 (MOW)
