Please don't take this as I'm telling you to get a D (I don't like D and only you will know when and if you'd want to do that), I'm just giving you info.
In my state adultry is grounds for an immediate D (with no separation) In my state, living apart means nothing in terms of adultry, you are still married and so it is still adultry.
Research is good, and having the info is good. It can help you feel stronger and yet you don't have to do anything at all with what you learn, but its in your back pocket.
Nature Girl M 40 H 40 M 15, T 19 D11 S9 bomb 3/07 (MOW)
