ANd even if he did have those problems, most men would want to satisfy their partner in some fashion.

Maybe, she could put it to the test. If he says no...well, then...it is time to confront if that is what she wants to do.

I feel badly for Patti. You work so hard at something, get part of it back, but there is that other part that is lacking or non-existent at the moment. It's tough.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19