Jen, I'm glad you had a good counselling session. I agree with Edge - it is very difficult to find a counsellor that doesn't advise to just move on. Continue the IC to work through your own issues - I'm sure it will help you a great deal.

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"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz