You guys are a great cheerleading section....love ya!
She came with me to my yoga class last night, that sure was nice. We laid in bed this morning for half an hour, just talking and watching the sun come up over the water. She said "it's so nice to be back". I just feel silent gratitude when she says stuff like that.
When I picked her up from work last night, she jumped in the Jeep, leaned over and gave me a big kiss. Then she just stared at me. "What?" I asked. "Nothing", she said..."this just feels so natural, doesn't it?"
I have realize something about my girl. When she makes up her mind to do something, she's in all the way.
I know I need to be cautious, but so far this is going really well.
You are a dbing king. "Silent gratitude." You are in the zone!
May I live vicariously through you and your wife??
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
May I live vicariously through you and your wife??
Well CW, we still have some work to do, but we are both optimistic.
She just phoned me an hour ago and told me she's been phoning and reconnecting with all of "our" friends, telling them that we are back together again.
That is a good sign, that it is her doing this, of her own free will.
As far as recommitment goes your W is pretty impressive. The hard work now is not to get complacent , and not to drift back into old ways , this is a new way of life ahead of you.
In saying that like the others I am so pleased for you , relax and enjoy .
She just phoned me an hour ago and told me she's been phoning and reconnecting with all of "our" friends, telling them that we are back together again.
GREAT sign! How are the friends reacting?
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
The friends are all saying "I knew nothing could keep you two apart" or some variation of that.
Everyone is very happy for us.
Things are still going extremely well, I was out last night, and she put all of her stuff away in the condo. I came home at 9pm and she poured me a glass of wine and we chatted for an hour before going to bed.
We are going grocery shopping tonight, then coming home and going for a run.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
I agree. Just kind of ride things and look for clues as to how each of you are feeling, what moves you both need to avoid and/or make.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09