Do you want to express yourself or do you want it to 'work'.
Hunh?? I don't understand this, SG. Are you replying to S&A, or to Tired? Assuming it is the latter, are you implying that S&A's advice (which I thought was excellent) wouldn't be effective? If so, why not?
Puppy
Agreed, I am confused as well. I absolutely want "it" to work. I have been expressing myself for years, it is not working. I want my marriage to work, or in the alternative, I want to be sure that I have done all I could to save it before I put the marriage in a long overdue grave.
