M - It sounds like you have done your homework on the A. I was totally clueless W as having an A for so long. She was losing weight and buying new clothes, thought she was doing this all for herself as she was coming out of a stint with depression. No new undies or things like that. She was so secretive, if it wasn't so wrong, I would say I was impressed! :-) The one thing I didn't have was cell phone bills, if I would have seen those, I would have figured something out. Our R was going bad before the A, A helped it to where it is now. If there is not evidence, then you mind should be somewhat at ease.

Interesting about your weight! I wish I could eat 6 times a day! I get a lot of comments on my weight loss. I just tell people I am eating differently!!! Works for me.

Take care.


M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09