You have to make your own decisions, I'm not a big fan of exposing A, because I believe it would upset W and drive her to OM (why not the cats out of the bag). I don't think exposure does anything to heal the situation, I think it just drives a wedge between you both and its not part of your game, did we change our game plan ???
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hopeful4her: As I said in my thread, I am going to kill this woman with kindness and love.
Regarding protecting yourself, my W phone records would show a pattern (could have court pull records) and I'm always making home movies and taking pictures, and guess what, W is usually never there and thus not in the pictures. I've saved all of her e-mails prior to my DBing. Her emails responding back to me regarding the A. just some ideas without resorting to snooping
I'm not a big fan of snooping either, it hurts, they are going to do what they want, all we can do is our best to love them and hopefully they come back.
Corinthians 13 (New Living Translation) 13:4-7 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
At least I'll know that I did everything I could and followed Gods will, forgivness, and love
Improve, Protect, Love
M45 W41 D9, D6, D6, S5 2 Dogs, 1 Cat M 10 years OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me PA confirmed 03/08 and still going ???
