No, you might of got me wrong there. It may be right for you (sorry can't remember how long since the bomb in your sitch), but I'm just a month or 2 'officially' in. During that I'd say only really been getting my head together for 3 or 4 weeks with 1 major back slide last week.
I do really need to find out the legalities to protect myself tho, so if it comes to it i can go to the second or third sessions very prepared.
I really just want to keep up the GALing, the 'as if' ing and the family holidays out the way first, then I will re evaluate.