It is very common and one explanation is this. In their conscience, they know they are GUILTY. However, they have to justify their actions, the LBS has to be the bad person, unreasonable, unlovable, b!tch or @hole etc. this way, WAS is absolved. They had to leave this terrible R with this horrible person, it was the only thing any reasonable person could do. Also, the WAS will not experience any true, deep, lasting peace after the dust settles so they will usually kick up the dust again down the road.
Remember, it is not you, it is them. (Ok, sometimes it is us but mostly, it them )
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