She may just not want you in her car b/c you may find something that she doesn't want you to see (re the carseat thing) -- that was my first thought -- not that she doesn't want you doing things for her.

Is she having an A that you know of? I would say she probably is.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10