You say you have spoken to your wife and told her that you are on the verge of an affair? My husband asked me to come and visit him when he was working overseas, but I was busy with university and was sure that he'd never give another woman a glance.Well the first woman who came along and took his flirting seriousaly ended up having an affair with him. She was single and her husband left her for another woman so she just moved in and she and my H "played house" for three months. You can not imagine the pain his indiscretion caused our family and ultimately her family too. We are close now but it has taken three years of hard work to connect again. By the way before he left to work overseas I refused sex with him because I was so resentful of him working such long hours. Do not have an affair.. talk to her... tell her the truth!
