The advice that PING GAVE ME ABOUT MC IS PASTED BELOW.
It may work or may not. Good luck. _______________________
Mike, in an earlier post you mentioned that you are going to C to save your marriage, your W is going to be friendly during this. What I'm about to tell you may not be correct but it is worth a try.
Our W's can see it all over our faces that we want to save our M, this lets them know that they have us so they have no reason to try, right? This is what I would suggest you do, when you go to C tomorrow, don't talk about R, talk about how you and your W can be happy after the D, I know this sounds weird but I am thinking this would be a huge 180 and will throw your W for a loop, she may begin to think more about what she is doing if she sees that you will go forward regardless of what happens. She will walk into C knowing what you are going to be saying so I am sure she will go in there with a negative attitude to begin with, change it up on her, see what happens. Once you do this, don't bring it back up. She will think more about what she is doing.
Now of course these are only my suggestions, they may be correct, they may not, hey there at least worth a try. Good luck tomorrow.
