M, I am a little confused. What kind of a meeting goes until 10:30 pm? Doesn't that sound a little strange to you? She does work days right? I can't remember any business meetings that I have ever had that last that late. What is up with that? Has this been the norm in her job? I don't want to beat you up on this, but don't you agree this is highly unusual?
Also, taking the seat in the house seems odd. Do you think she thinks you are snooping in her car? Think M.. WHY would someone make it a POINT for you to bring it inside? You say that she acts like she doesn't want you to do anything for her, but isn't taking the car seat inside DOING something for her? If she didn't want you to do anything for her, then why wouldn't she tell you to leave it in your car and she will take care of it herself?
M, I would hope you don't get angry or offended at these questions, but as I sit back and watch and listen to what you write and say about things she is doing, they just don't add up to me. Do they to you? You are emotionally invested in this and I am not. Do you think these things are normal or just a coincidence?
Stay observant. Something seems odd to me here. Things are not adding up....
YOU? What do you think? Does any of this make sense?
GL, I knew that would confuse you. YOU ARE NOT BEATING ME UP, you are not offending me in any way. I am watching like a hawk. My W works for the American cancer Society. yes, she works days. Every once in a while she has to go to Nashville, once about every 4 months all the directors have to meet in Nashville. When she first started the job she would do overnights to nashville, when the D came along she did not want to do overnights anymore so she started driving down and back in a day. She left at 5:45 yesterday morning, arrived in Knoxville 1.5 hours later, got in the car with her boss (a woman) then drove on to nashville with her boss, had the meeting. nashville is 5 hours from us but there is a time difference of -1 hour. After the meeting she called me from the car as they were leaving Nashville, I could hear her boss talking in the background during our conversation. I saw the emails between her boss and her with directions on where to meet..etc. This is not unusual for her to do this, she has done this since she has had the job. The timeline adds up.
She just started acting like she does not want me to do anything for her since I started acting "as if" I was OK. It's like she's practicing being on her own, doing for herself. Last time we had to move the car seat, she did it herself, she did not leave a note asking me to do it..she did it herself.
I don't know why she left the note last night. There's nothing in her car to find. her note said "M, could you bring car seat inside? Thanks K" I moved it into her car from my caqr. If she does not want me in her car then why not hide her cars keys where I can't get to them? She could have taken her pocketbook into her bedroom with her keys and she knows I won't go in there and wake her to find her keys. I don't have keys to her car.
Believe me GL, I am not just explaining these things away. I am watching. If something is going on then she is very good at hiding it.
You keep posting on my thread GL. I need you. You do not offend me.
