M - Where was the C advice from Ping ? Sory, had a quick scan but can't find it.

if it's easy enough, could you paste to my thread as I look at so many and try to respond to so many, I lose track of where everything is !!! Thanks

Your sitch - Maybe your W is feeling herself dragged back in and is to stubborn or does not believe the changes will last, so is forcing herself to 'detach' if you like.

I think we are all relatively new to this still so the stuff were going through is all probably quite normal progress (but jees is it tough to keep positive at times)