Its been sometime since I posted, but thought that I would check in! H and I are still moving forward together. We have settled into more of a "normal" relationship, but sometimes feel that we have fallen back alittle with talking, but I am trying to get that back on track, we do sit and talk, and are trying to do it nightly, but its never about us, more about the day, the kids etc. So we need to focus alittle more on the relationship. We have not been to our core group(with retrouvaille)for sometime, but are going back tonight, so again it should help. I seem to be getting more settled again, and am not so consumed with what happened and my feeling, they seem to have settle into something that is not so painful, so that is helping! We are making plans for the upcoming year and next, and so that is a good sign, he does tell me often that he is going no where! One little note we are getting a new puppy in about 2 weeks! We are getting a pug, and I am so excited! H never like them and never wanted one, but he saw how much I wanted one and relented, however now he looking forward to it, and is now talking about us getting another one! I knew he would melt being around them!!! So to all still here and trying, it does work, and even if it doesn't it works on you, it changes you, for the best and thats good too! I think you will forever have good days and bad days, but its all in how you manage those! I still hang around here, and I should post more on others links, and am going to try and start to do that more!
Take care to all!!!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
