i"m actually (and I can't believe I'm saying this) not sure I want him back. This situation has forced me to look at many, many red flags of lies over the years (and not innocent little lies, like pot dealers coming to our home that he said were students at the university he works at, he regularly engaged in prostitution prior to meeting me (probably after) and a couple of times they were with transvestites), I don't know, even if I had the opportunity to take him back, he never talks about his feelings -- never -- and keeps things inside. Clearly this pattern of behavoir that I'm peicing together is troubling to say the least
