I think it's thoughtful and prudent that you figure out where the boundaries are for you guys. That said, I wouldn't go off and plan a summer's worth of activities, but maybe just one or two. Loved, loved, loved your answer to the freedom question! As you said, you are a real and true new Mink. Keep that and you'll both be happier.

Cheers to the Minks!!


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.