Personally, I do not agree with Dobson or with sending such a letter at all.

In MLC, it is a different ballgame.

If they must leave, let them go, and if they come back, great, but be prepared that they might leave again.

My approach has been different as I have used the Bible as my guide.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19