Well, it has been stated that it takes well over a year to get over the other person.

Expect that there will be calls in the beginning but he must be very open with Patti.

However, as time goes on, he must be able to cut the contact with OW.

How she handles it after that is up to her.

Personally, I would not kick my husband out over that because I would be thankful that he is home. I would be in that prayer closet every day praying about this.

Things do not happen overnight.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19