Update- things are going very well - i am actually due to deliver our second child, a little girl, any day now. i don't want to be misleading and say that things have been easy, they haven't been. it's been hard to regain trust and to learn to live together again. my biggest lesson has been to learn to let go of the little things. we've both had to lighten up, and we are happier people for it. i give my H the benefit of the doubt, and just assume he is not being malicious when he says or does something that rubs me the wrong way. i also have an appreciation for the preciousness of what we have. the fact that my husband is sleeping next to me every night is worth more that i can even express. with anything, when you've almost lost it, you tend to appreciate it and keep it closer to your heart than ever before. i am so thankful that we didn't quit. so thankful that i didn't give up. those of you that know my story know what a long road i traveled. it was a worthwhile journey indeed.
