To agree to a D or not..... that is the question

[cagzmom]

I too picked up the book because it said "DIVORCE BUSTING..." and as you (And many other people) thought this was a "plan" or idea or some huge SECRET to fixing the mess....This wasn't the only book I read...looking seeking craving for the answer...and I like you am looking at the D.

What I have found instead was that the people on this board USE the tools daily - and I have watched through reading their growth as people. The dignity and self respect that they have gained BACK because they HAVE used the DB principles. Also--the fundamentals of Michelles book are the basis of EVERY SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE book...the same things we teach our kids in dating.
1)dont chase
2)find yourself
3)knowone can make you happy only you can
4)the men like to pursue-let them puruse you


And you are right -- this is hard-- you are in the midst of hell..and I am so so sorry.