I feel awful for you. She will regret this decision if she follows through with it. I said a lot of the things she said to my H at one time or another. Remember, it took about 3 years from the start until now. It wouldn't have been this long if H had made changes earlier. It did take me a while to realize how stupid I was and the realization of the divorce stopped me. Is she ok with having the kids part time? I wish I could talk to her.....but, yet....she sounds like she just isnt "here" yet......I wouldn't give up if I were you. There is still hope. Pray, pray, pray.
