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Am I a failure? I've been divorced for 9 months and I am still battling it. I'm going back to court Allison because I am sick of his inability to comprehend DIVORCE.

I am not a failure. I am a survivor.

You are not a failure.....you are a survivor!

Do not ever EVER be ashamed for what you had to endure trying to save your marriage Allison. NEVER!

You step up to the plate now and be the best damn ALLISON EVER!!!


Allison,

I, like Jeanette, have been divorced for 9 months. H still is not happy and still is blaming me for all his problems. I talked to my doctor about H's actions today and he said something about H having control issues. They are the screwed up one's not us. WE have spent this time working on improving us. What have they been working on??


Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.